Flashback, 21 Dec 2019, Reijer Staats

Farewell shout-out

Dear family and friends, how wonderful that you're all here! Yesterday, Johan asked, "Are we really going to give a speech?" "Well, let's have something ready just in case," I replied, followed by a silence broken by Johan: "As long as you don't start crying!"

This Friday, just after Christmas, we're off to Spain. How did we get here? You'll be able to read all about it, as I'll be writing a blog about how we're building our new life under the Andalusian sun. We weren't chosen for the Dutch equivalent of the BBC's A New Life in the Sun because the broadcaster didn't find us exciting enough. But of course, we'd love you to follow our journey.

Recently, we had dinner with friends who live near our renovated donkey stable in Spain. Our Norwegian vecina suggested reading tarot cards. Johan drew a card symbolising what we love most: taking new steps, creating something from nothing, turning ideas into results, enjoying the creative process, and making connections and friendships.

I drew a card symbolising childhood memories, reminding me not only to dream about the future but also to pause and reflect on the past and cherish my relationships—especially with my mother, our dear sisters, and family. Suddenly, our farewell felt very real.

We are saying goodbye to our home, our jobs, and some possessions, but those things aren't what matter most to us. What truly matters are the bonds and connections. Despite the physical distance, in Spain we're only a phone call, message, or email away. And dear friends, you are always welcome at our home in Spain! Seeing each other there will be just as special and enjoyable as it is here.

I'll finish now. Thank you for coming to our farewell gathering. But—we're not going home just yet! The sharp listener may have noticed not a single Spanish word was spoken in this speech. But here's one to end with: SALUD!